Snapshots from the Skatebox

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Somehow, I got elected as the family archivist. I have the old box from a pair of rollerskates that has housed the family photos and photo albums for decades. The Skatebox. Most of these, however, I'd never seen until I found my mom's collection in her keepsakes.
 
My Mom as a baby

My Granddaddy holding his little girl, my Mom


My mom and her mom

My mom, her brother, and her daddy







My mom and her little brother

My Mom and Dad

One of my favorite pictures of my Mom and I

My older brother, Mom, and me




Me, my older brother, little sister, baby
brother in progress, Mom and Dad.

My Mom and my newborn son

Another favorite picture of us

Jean

 

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